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[quote=Anonymous]No. He can not come to visit. When you make mistakes there are consequences. People do not get sober by everybody being nice, they get sober by everybody NOT being nice. I have 3 brothers who are alcoholics. The one everybody tried to help is dead. The two everybody said - DO NOT COME TO MY HOUSE UNLESS YOU ARE SOBER - are sober. Guess what alcoholics do the day they leave rehab - drink - the day they leave sober living - drink. They do not say, you know I will stay sober while I am at my brothers - then I will drink. If he is in sober living (which sounds to me was court ordered) he needs to stay there until the courts, counselors, etc think he is ready. Then he needs to live on his own for a few months sober, then I would welcome back into my life. Funny, your SIL won't let him stay at her house but she wants you to let him stay at your house. No WAY![/quote]
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