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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, break it down for us, OP. use letters like PP suggested. This is so confusing. What was the big news? Who is jealous of your good news? The whole part of your friend breaking into song is weird. What did you mean what you write in your OP that you got the relevance of the song she sung- - a snake chasing a boy?? What???[/quote]

OP here:  I would say you captured my feeling as well. My friend is very smart. There is no relevance to the song, which took me by surprise -just that it is so inappropriate. I was going WTF??? We just came into a great deal of money. In person I am extremely circumspect. I would not say "hello I am 100x richer than yesterday!!! Woohoo!" I think, however, that my talking in circles alerted her to this and she did not want to hear it. Particularly when her friend had just said the same thing the night before. Coincidence. I have been in that position and it sometimes is hard to take.
LOL we are long past the baby stage.[/quote]

I have NEVER said this before on this board or in real life, but why on EARTH is it appropriate to share your big inheritance news with your friends, and double why on earth do you think that it would be appropriate to make a huge announcement about it? Unless it is in the context of "We are celebrating the conclusion of the estate negotiations/one of us just got a new job with a massive signing bonus/other financial windfall situation, so dinner is on us tonight!"

It sounds like your friend did not want to hear about you gloating. So she cut you off, rudely. I would have a lot more sympathy for your outrage if you hadn't been acting in a totally classless way in the first place.[/quote]

Why on EARTH are you so ANGRY? People inherit money. Oh, please. Wait until it happens to you. This friend has been flashing the cash for years. she just did not expect to get flashed back.[/quote]

So ... now you were intentionally trying to flaunt the inheritance and are annoyed at her bc she started singing some kid's song?

You're NUTS, OP.  But this thread is hilarious.[/quote]

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