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[quote=Anonymous]OP: this is tough. We have always had far more money than my sister. But her lack of money does stem from life style choices that she has made. To have a drinking problem, to not reach out for opportunities (not apply for a job) to marry a poor immigrant with no education and skills and a large family to support. To a certain extent, she chose the lifestyle called poor. It can be very awkward because we cannot afford to support her and her husband's family, however comfortably we might live in a middle class way. So when she needs money, sometimes we give it, but the whole family has been giving to this sister (that is usually the pattern) Giving can wreck a relationship because the other person feels that they owe you, or that they have to account to you. Like, well, I did not buy myself new jewelry because we cannot afford it while I am supporting you. But apparently you can. So then you are in the middle of her petty spending. It can be very tough. Good luck OP.[/quote]

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