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[quote=Anonymous][quote]My grandmother refused to leave her house and it had been falling apart for years and years. We tried to get her to move into an apartment or in with one of her daughters. She could not financially keep up with the house and neither could her children. We tried for 20 years to come up with a plan but she refused. The house got so bad we did not feel comfortable bringing great grand children over. Mold issues, lead paint, all kinds of things. The house became a real obstacle. There were stairs she could no longer do. We worried about her falling. She did fall eventually and she died. It was so sad because we all wanted her in a safe comfortable place. A house can become a huge obstacle. I would work on a plan now while she is still younger. OP it is could you are voicing your concerns now. [/quote] Sounds like all you grandmother wanted was to spend her final years in familiar surroundings full of memories of her lifetime and not in a cold and sterile place that she knew was simply a stopover on her way to the morgue.[/quote]
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