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[quote=Anonymous]I am so sorry OP.  I know how painful this can be.  My DH and I are going through this with his twin sister who has either NPD or BPD and/or both.  Because he finally stood up to her after years of her treating us like crap, she has decided we are not allowed to see our nephews (who we were VERY close with due to her instability), she has not seen our older son in over a year and has never seen our acknowledged the birth of our youngest.  She throws a fit about family functions and refuses to go if we are there and my inlaws have enabled her their entire life.  Thus, we have been asked to leave places early so she could then come by with the kids, etc.  Speical events become all about her and her mandates.  And we have NEVER said we could not be around her or she could not see our children.
We finally had to realize like you that we just had to let it go and let the chips fall where they may.  It is still really hard though and I do mourn the loss of my nephews and their relationship with my children.  Hugs and protect your family first.[/quote]

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