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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with 19:19. I grew up in an incredibly dysfunctional/abusive family. Well into adulthood, I always blamed my father for it. It wasn't until after I had my own kids that I realized how complicit my mother was in all of this. The horror of it really hit home and even after a couple years of therapy I still can't understand how my mother didn't do something to protect us - rather than teaching us to do whatever it took to appease my father. It was really difficult for me to face the reality of the role my mother played. I suspect at some point after you have your DC, you may come to the same realization.[/quote]
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