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[quote=Anonymous]I've been in a similar position to your wife and OP, it sucks. Yes, I agreed to come back to DC but I reluctantly agreed. There are times you have a true choice and then there are times you have a "choice" if you know what I mean. While it seems clear that she was on board going to Asia and worked there and was good to go, how did the conversation go about coming back here? If she wasn't completely on board with leaving, there could be some resentment. And even if she was on board, the only true known factor in that equation is that you had a job, and she was HOPING to get a job. In my case, it took far longer for me to find a job than I thought it would (7 months) and I couldn't help but be resentful of this being the third time that I had to go trolling for work when my husband just hopped along with no break in his resume.

Instead of getting pissy and angry, try to understand that things didn't go the way your wife wanted them too either. It's a hard and humbling pill to swallow and it doesn't make it easier when your husband is judging you for it either. [/quote]

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