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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. To address some questions:  DH and I worked overseas where we met and got married, so I had a very vague idea of his family. They did make an impression of extremely intrusive and pushy during the wedding, but I did not have enough time to make conclusions. We moved in the area when the baby was born. As many have noted, I am more annoyed by the whole dismissal of my wishes and opinions. I would be more open to a dialog if they ASKED to come I've, but they simply decided to do so. And honestly, I am not used to seeing family all the time, twice a months is plenty for me, 9 times a months would be just too much. I feel that I lost my independence as a person with this move, I guess I am not a collectivisti. type.[/quote]

That is a clear boundary to make then: any time they state, not ask is an automatic no. I think DH and you need to spell this out. This home is your home, this baby is your baby. You love the family, but they must respect your wishes with regard to your home and family. Stop being so available, and start saying no now. [/quote]

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