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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's strange how women blame the other woman for breaking up the family when [b]really it's the husbands fault[/b], hes the one who had a responsibility to his family. Anyway, all types of women could find themselves in an affair with a married guy. People think slutty, lonely, easy women but that's just not true. We are all flawed humans. We all make stupid decisions from time to time. [/quote]

Your either/or view of fault is very confusing to me. Sure, it's his fault. But if the Other Woman knew about the family, it's her fault too. I have no problem saying that the husband is more at fault -- he has greater obligations to his family. But the Other Woman also has some minimum obligations -- even if it's nothing more than having the simple decency not to voluntarily fuck another person's spouse. [/quote]

Yes, you're right. The other woman has minimal blame I guess. In my own personal experience, my husband was having an affair with an old high school gf, and totally feeding the other woman a load of bs, telling her we were divorcing, he was gonna be with her, he loved her and her child, I was basically a cold heartless bitch when in reality he was playing a happily married man when he was home and she was nothing but a temporary outlet for whatever it was he felt he needed. I feel like she was duped, like we both were. So personally I have placed blame on him, not her. Maybe it's just easier that way for me, idk. People say they feel a certain way about a certain topic, but until you live the situation, you don't really know how you'll feel.[/quote]

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