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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]240 guests, $38k, 26 years ago

Zero regrets, it was a fun, fabulous weekend (rehearsal dinner, wedding, Sunday brunch).  We have $100k earmarked for each of our kids weddings (1 boy, 1 girl), they are 20 and 23. If they don't want a big wedding, they can use it for a honeymoon or down-payment for a house[/quote]

I hope they put it towards a house otherwise they will need help from the National Bank of Momanddad.[/quote]

Well, I don't know about that, but I will say this:  it's weird and presumptuous to assume that your kids--especially ones who are only 20 and 23--are ever going to want to get married in the first place, then again want a big wedding.  [/quote]

Meh. For a lot of people, if you want to be ready to pay for something this substantial, you have to plan ahead and save. Not unlike college. I don't think there's anything wrong with hoping your kids will get married. This used to be the normal way of things.[/quote]

Yea, they're is.  "Hoping" your kids will get married imposes your world view on them and applies pressure, whether spoken or not.  Your only "hope" should be that they are happy in whatever they choose to do.  As for saving, you don't need to save for any particular purpose.  You just save for security's sake.

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