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[quote=Anonymous]OP, re: your professor, it is VERY important for you to understand here, now, today, that this man is showing eery sign of being a predator and you should do a 180 and get as far away from him as possible. You are at a critical juncture in decision making and setting up independence. It is difficult, stressful, and NORMAL to go through a complete evolution in your support structure and one falls or pulls away and another surfaces. He is exploiting your vulnerability, and you are falling for it (while no doubt telling yourself that you are an adult, are mature, can handle it, etc). This man will get you emotionally involved and suck up your limited and valuable energy, time and emotional availability just at the most crucial juncture when you need to be finding the right partner (which is not him). What will happen here if you get involved with him, is you will miss out on the critical window of mate-finding, and in ten years you will be here crying about your lost opportunities. I have seen this play out in real life over and over.[/quote]
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