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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I like when I see men commenting on posts here, it actually makes me feel happy and kind of like… wow. Even when you don’t agree with the OP, it’s usually more like “I don’t like that” without attacking, and I respect that. It makes me want to talk to men more. Most of my friends are men, and I think men are underappreciated. A lot of women hate men for no reason, and it’s odd.

First and most importantly, how are you doing? I hope everything going well in your life.

What do you actually want?
Like in life, in relationships, all of

How can women make things better for you?

What makes you feel respected or valued?

What do you want from the woman you’re with?

What kind of woman do you actually want to date?

And do you think men are devalued right now?

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NHonestly, I think most men just want some peace, purpose, and someone who genuinely wants them around . not just for what they provide, but for who they are.

As for me personally:

In life: I want stability, meaningful relationships, financial freedom, and a life that feels calm more than performative.
In relationships: loyalty, emotional safety, attraction, honesty, and teamwork. Someone who feels like a partner instead of an opponent.

How women can make things better?
A lot of men rarely hear appreciation unless they’re actively doing something useful. Simple things matter more than people realize: respect, kindness, reassurance, feeling wanted, being spoken to with patience instead of contempt. Most men remember those things for years.

What makes me feel respected:

Being listened to without immediately being assumed wrong or malicious
Feeling trusted
Effort being reciprocated
Affection initiated sometimes
Support during hard times, not just during successful times

What I’d want from a woman:

Emotional maturity
Loyalty
Communication without cruelty
A sense of humor
Peaceful energy
Someone who can disagree without trying to humiliate or “win”

The kind of woman I’d date is honestly just someone authentic. Not perfect. Just warm, self-aware, caring, emotionally stable, and able to build together instead of constantly testing the relationship.

And yes, I do think a lot of men feel devalued right now. Not because women have gained rights or independence. That is a good thing!but because there’s a growing feeling that men are only appreciated conditionally. A lot of men feel emotionally disposable, and many just stop talking about it because vulnerability is often treated differently when it comes from men.

That said, I don’t think it’s “men vs women.” Most normal people want the same things: love, respect, safety, understanding, and someone who chooses them consistently.

Also, the fact that you asked these questions sincerely probably means more than you realize.[/quote]

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