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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Needs fixing, or needs cleaning, or needs replacing is most often subjective. [/b]

Lots of people's standards don't align and that doesn't mean one person is right and another person is wrong. But the person who wants action, of course, will portray the person who's ok living with less action, as lazy, uninvolved, unmotivated. The person comfortable with less action views the other as bossy, as spending too much money, nags too much, sucks the fun out of day to day life.[/quote]

No. Not really. Sorry Pp.

Plus if your life partner cares about the mold in the fridge, so should you.  I find it esp pathetic when a stranger points it out and then gets action, but not a spouse in need.

It’s willful ignorance + weaponized incompetence + misogyny.

People like that shouldn’t even have roommates.[/quote]

If there is mold in the fridge, both partners have ignored the fridge for a while. You don't get to "care about the mold in the fridge" and then get mad that the other partner didn't clean it. This "spouse in need" stuff sounds like playing the victim. Just clean the damn refrigerator or plan to clean it together and then do so. [/quote]

Love those lazy people games of chicken: who can leave out more dirty dishes, who can ignore the broken toilet seat the longest, who can avoid taking the car in for an oil change, who can neglect the fact that the adhd kid needs therapy. [/quote]

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