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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The way my siblings and I have been raised by my parents (and extended family too) - we all will take care of uncles, aunties, grandparents, siblings, nephews, nieces, parents, ILs, children, cousins etc.

I will take care of anyone I can take of.  Family, neighbors, coworkers, friends...everyone.

Of course, being able to take care of someone, and not needing someone to take care of you...happens only when you are raised to be functional and self-sufficient by the whole clan.  Rising tide raises all boats...

It is essential for more capable family members to ensure that they give the support needed to their relatives so everyone thrives and can be self-sufficient in the future.

It is extremely cultural mindset for us. [/quote]

So if everybody is self-sufficient, then nobody would need help, no? I personally am done after raising kids and about to launch them, I've spent so much time on caretaking that literally nobody cares what my interests are or what I want, everybody just has a hand out since I'm the "capable" one. The burnout is real. At some point I want to live for myself, not take care of everyone else. [/quote]

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