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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oooooh, the comments on this are good especially on social media. The middle-aged men are sheepishly quiet. https://www.nytimes.com/2026/04/16/opinion/younger-men-dating-older-women.html My view? Both parties want low drama. [b]The woman in her mid 40s already has a house, kids, her own money - she doesn't want a guy with baggage.[/b] The younger guy in his early 30s is avoiding the pressure put on by his peers to have babies, buy the house, go for the brass ring. Everyone is avoidant.[/quote] Unless the kids are grown, kids and custody and everything that comes with it IS baggage.[/quote] She's not introducing her kids to the early 30s FWB. He has no desire to meet her kids. They are making the most of her 50-50 custody. I don't think you get it. For him, "baggage" is the pressure to marry and have babies and be a providers. His late 40s divorced FWB already did all that and doesn't want it again. [/quote]
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