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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How can I identify which qualities would. Take someone a good husband. No one ever taught me and I can’t seem to know the answer on my own. [/quote]

Any individual who is kind, fair, friendly, respectful, generous, hard working and has no addiction is also going to make a great human, son, brother, friend, neighbor, employee, husband and father. [/quote]

I’m here. I will say that I remember very early on when we were dating (maybe 6 weeks or so), my husband would check in with me before making plans with others. I actually remember thinking it was a little weird, because he could do whatever he wanted. But he would always call and say something like, “hey, I got invited to dinner with my high school buddy next week and I just wanted to check that there wasn’t anything you wanted us to do that night before I say yes.” Looking back, it was a very good sign that our family would come first. And it does.

Now he has ADHD so his executive functioning isn’t fabulous, but he is kind and fair and has put lots of systems in place. I could give you a list of things he does and you would be amazed. Or I could give you a list of his weaknesses and some of you would be appalled. But, on balance, he is amazing!

We have been together 20 years and while we might annoy each other from time to time, I can’t even think of a recent big argument of any kind. We can talk stuff through and generally predict the other’s perspective so there is no need to fight when you can both already think the fight through in your head and are already to go with a compromise/path forward, etc.[/quote]

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