Reply to Women with great husbands help me

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Women with great husbands help me "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is spot on--

"I would say:
Observe for at least 4 seasons
Take notes:

How does he act toward you when he’s really stressed? (Good husband material would be able to be self aware enough to say, “I’m feeling stressed about XYZ right now” and will not take it out on you. My dad used to just throw tantrums, no self awareness or communication at all).

Increase commitment slowly. Lead with your personality not your looks. Take a short trip together because travel logistics, planning, budgeting etc can teach you a lot about someone.

Good with money. Not just living frugally but also ambitious to earn more, but not in wheeler dealer scammer kind of ways, hardworking ways. Has a bank account and credit card paid off monthly, can talk about retirement goals, ideas about where he wants to live and housing."[/quote]

I also was going to highlight this comment. Great advice!

Note the money aspect doesn’t require someone to make a lot of money. We are relatively poor by DCUM standards. But that’s because we both looked at the life we wanted to live and decided that free time and lack of stress was much more important than higher salary. But we adjusted our expenses as a result and live within our means with no debt. The responsible choices are the key, not the money itself. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics