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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I also have an issue with the idea  of " she gave her up but I raised her. " We are loooong past this paradigm. No one gives up a child because they wanted to. They had to, and there are numerous reasons. The adoptive parents aren't saviors. 
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You sound bitter.

Most birth parents who make an adoption plan are not in a position to care for a baby at that time.

That is not the baby’s fault or the adoptive parents.’

Adoptive parents are not saviors, but they can play a vital role for an innocent and helpless baby who needs responsible, loving adults to care for him/her. The result can be beautiful and a win-win for both.

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I am not bitter. This something you have to realize  is the entire paradigm  shift. 
What you call "responsible" says it all, we spend more time and money helping  infertile  couples get a baby than  we do helping birth parents  keep  their baby. Adoptive parents  aren't  the winners because  they view the birth parents  as irresponsible. You are assuming that the  birth parents aren't going to be loving. [/quote]

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