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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What was the purpose in taking a photo? Who were you going to show it to?[/quote]

Collecting evidence in these situations is smart. If it doesn’t continue, it’s fine. If it does continue or it escalates, you’ll be glad you documented.[/quote]

No, it was a terrible idea. [/quote]

lol why so defensive?

Of course OP could have her own issues. But sometimes things are more wrong than others - and grabbing your small child so hard it leaves a mark is one of those things. her DH needs to face that. [/quote]

I'm not defensive. I'm holding up the mirror. Here's OP, putting on the face that she's this poor, loving, patient mother with an angry husband. But her tale is filled with actions and verbiage that suggests she's contributing big-time to the dysfunction. It's not "defensive" to point it out.

Not to mention, the photographs aren't actual evidence of anything.[/quote]

I think you are the only one who mistakenly believes someone is on trial here. OP did nothing to make her DH grab her child so hard it left a mark and act in anger to the kids. That is 100% on him. Whatever OP’s flaws are are irrelevant here. But clearly you are against the DH having to face that what his is doing is wrong. Or you actually think it is OK to behave that way. [/quote]

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