Reply to Busy on Valentines Day

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Busy on Valentines Day"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let me guess.. she's in her late 30s? She's already built a life around her friends, and they come first.[/quote]

OP here. Yes, this is the case. I’m realizing I wrote 2 months but it’s actually been 3 months. I’m not sure if I should wait more or just figure we don’t want the same thing.[/quote]

Seems like an overreaction to breakup over Valentine’s Day. She could have made these plans a few weeks ago, when you first started dating and she didn’t want to presume you’d do something big that early on. Is it really that big of a deal to celebrate it on a different day?[/quote]

She shouldn’t have assumed they’d do something on Vday. But once she got the invite she should’ve accepted. I would if I liked someone. I can watch tv with my friends anytime.[/quote]

I’m assuming OP asked today (Feb 4). That’s only 10 days before V Day. He should have asked earlier. She correctly assumed they weren’t doing anything, OP waiting too long, she made other plans. It would be rude for her to cancel those and also set a bad precedent that OP can wait to make plans and she’ll accommodate him.

I’ve been dating my BF 5 months and we made plans for V Day mid January. [/quote]

Ding ding ding.

Especially since it's a Saturday night.

Also, going out for Valentine's Day is amateur hour.  It's generally an awful experience.

And be glad she doesn't treat her friends like backup plans and cancel on them because a boy asked her out.  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics