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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, op, I think you’re being unreasonable. But that’s okay! You just had a baby and emotions run high. But no, expect g your mom not to mention to a friend that the baby was born does not scream “reasonable.” Congrats on the baby! [/quote] I have no doubt that there is a lot of history there that is making you so upset about this. Try to separate that out. My mother has done a lot to hurt me. I have realized I do set up tests for her and she inevitably fails and I get upset. But if I look at it rationally, some of these things would not bother me if someone else did them. We just have too much history and she continues to do some major things that I can’t get over so these more minor things get caught up in that. I am valid in being upset about the bigger things. But I have to figure out how to manage the relationship better because setting up these “tests” and getting upset about them doesn’t help me or her. Just a thought. [/quote]
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