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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Basic cleanliness, keeping fit, being a little distant, and being more direct when I feel like we should have sex have helped more than anything else. [/quote]

I'm 12:28 and I wish DH would do the above. Basic cleanliness and keeping fit (he doesn't exercise and has put on 20#, which makes the snoring worse, so we sleep in separate rooms....etc). But I also appreciate the directness when he wants sex--sometimes I have no idea.

I have had a few talks with DH about our sex life, and he seems to be on board with improving it and agrees to take the steps I have asked him to take (and I have taken the steps he has asked, including coming to bed earlier, etc)--but he fails in the execution department. In many areas of our life. So, I get tired of asking and being told "yes, I'm going to do X" and then waiting and it never happens. My choices are to nag, to silently be resentful, or to turn my energies elsewhere. Unfortunately, turnign my sexual energies elsewhere isn't optional (except for masturbation). [/quote]

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