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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has your son been in daycare since infancy? Sometimes this can contribute to attachment issues and problems with emotional regulation. A psychodynamic therapist, spending more time with him, and if you absolutely require care, a nurturing nanny, are steps worth considering if this is the situation. I hope good things for you and your child.[/quote]

If OP’s son has a disability, which may be quite likely, there’s no “nurturing nanny” that is going to make a difference. The thing that made a difference for my ADHD child was a structured preschool classroom with trained sped teachers.

Also, my other kid who was in daycare since 7 months is now a well adjusted, gifted, popular athletic kid who is loved by his teachers. Neurodivergence isn’t about “attachment issues” and also daycare isn’t going to contribute unless you’re talking about a child who has been through trauma and struggles with new caregivers/group settings or the daycare itself is somehow neglectful.

Stop trying to shame people into believing their child’s special needs/behavioral issues are because of their childcare.[/quote]

It can be due to parenting though even though parents don’t like to admit it.[/quote]

That’s why I said to watch super nanny. You can often see there are some kids that are perfectly fine with a parenting style and one or two kids in the family are out of controls.

My oldest was so easy. I would just give him a look and he would behave. My second pushed all the boundaries repeatedly. I needed a different Karen ring style for him.

Regardless whether OP gets a diagnosis or not the problem is still going to exist.

I wish there were more parenting coaches like a super nanny who cones into your house, gives tips, records your interactions and tells you how to switch up things.

It would have been helpful when trying to implement a time out/naughty corner to hear - don’t give up it may take 20 times to carry your kid back to it the first few times. And then if you give in two weeks later to restart  it, then it might take 30 times.

Some kids are just harder. But maybe that’s who they are and it isn’t disability. I never used corporal punishment but I ended up having to physically move him, seclude in time out in an unlocked room for 4 minutes, and restrain when my son was 4. It was exhausting but it worked.

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