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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You definitely need a lawyer. Maybe look at total assets so as you earn more each year and her trust builds you remain financial equals in the marriage. Maybe she pulls out of the trust the equivalent of your salary. No matter what you do your high six figure to seven figure salary will be a marital asset so you will have 99% of the family income and HHI. Her money is all locked away and won't be considered family assets - yours isn't. You need a lawyer to help you figure out how to remain financial equals in the marriage. [/quote] "Maybe she pulls out of the trust the equivalent of your salary." You clearly know nothing about trusts. First of all, she might not even be the trustee. There might be a corporate trustee who has to follow the rules of the trust. And the rules of the trust are unlikely to allow her to pull high six figures out. Most trusts require you to consider other assets - meaning his salary.[/quote] Well, if the family demanding a pre-nup cannot figure out a way to do this, then that’s on them. Even if the amount cannot be “pulled out” then the other spouse needs an entitlement to get that money back when the trust fund is available. [/quote]
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