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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You mean the world to your mom and dad. Don't break their hearts.[/quote]

I really, really don't. They barely think of me. My dad, in particular, has absolutely no attachment to me whatsoever.[/quote]

Maybe he had some mental disorders like Asperger’s/ autism and really could not connect with people or do things.

Look it up, there are support groups and it’s eye opening to realize that may have been what you were going through: an AS/NT parent child relationship, where few of your needs were being met [/quote]

Other people may have experienced it, but it doesn't fix it. Once you've had a childhood where you are unloved by your parents, that's just baked in for the rest of your life. You can't undo it.[/quote]

Is it possible to try to develop an active relationship with your younger self? Can you write that kid a letter — or several — and tell her what you needed to hear then, and didn’t? Can you get her little gifts today that may seem silly, but that close the loop on some decades-old longings? I have done that — and I think it helps. It reminded me that I was once this open-hearted little kid whose needs weren’t being met. Being kind to that kid helped me be a little kinder to Today Me. [/quote]

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