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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can someone explain why women aren’t more dominant? Or don’t want to be more dominant?[/quote] In my case two things: 1) it’s ridiculous—he’s stronger and bigger; 2) it’s a huge responsibility and takes a good bit of planning to actually do this lovingly, and sex is so relaxing when it’s not me who has to do this. It’s a little like any adrenaline sport, you have to think ahead in order to enjoy the adrenaline without enjoying a trip to ER. I plan much of our ski trips and many other things in life and it’s a gift to me that I don’t have to worry about the way we play with each other in private. That said, sometimes I step into a more assertive role, it’s different but he loves it in small doses. It tends to happen if he’s tired or stressed out. [/quote]
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