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[quote=Anonymous]I was in your shoes just over a year ago after a three-decade marriage. I wasn't quite ready to pull the plug but he went ahead and pulled it because he couldn't live without his AP one more minute (shockingly, (sarcasm)they're apparently no longer together now...). When the moment arrived, I found that the dread and anxiety over what it would be like actually dissipated immediately and I felt an overwhelming sense of relief that it was over. Of course it's not over because the legal battle he has launched against me has been insane. But I make myself focus on the relief and how good it feels not to live with that person anymore. It hasn't been an easy 15 months but I wouldn't change where I am for where I was. I've taken a huge financial hit and my legal fees are astronomical because he refuses to mediate but I'm still standing and still breathing. Once you finally pull the plug, I hope you, too, will find this overwhelming sense of relief.[/quote]
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