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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are worried about you, somewhat overprotective, and know something you don't about your SO. [b]Your SO is a loser who did not marry you right away[/b]. I agree with your dad.[/quote]

What? Sounds like she's about 14 weeks pregnant. [b]They've barely had time to process this news.[/b]

OP, it sounds like your father is struggling at both ends of the spectrum. He wants you to be married before the baby comes because that's tradition but he doesn't want you to get married just because you're having a baby. And he just lost his wife and has a new girlfriend so he's a bit all over the place. I know its hard to disappoint your parents but no matter what you do, he will spin it as the wrong thing because he won't be happy no matter what you do. So do what's best for you, marriage or not. Ignore your brother and uncles and lean on your aunts for support.

I have found that in circumstances like yours, there's a lot of drama before the baby comes. And once the baby arrives, that sort of goes out the window. Babies have a way of softening things.[/quote]
You either want to be married or not. There’s been plenty of time for a courthouse wedding. The shenanigans about designing a ring and “surprise” engagement are just that - shenanigans. If that was what OP really had wanted, she wouldn’t have gotten pregnant before getting those things. [/quote]

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