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Reply to "Parents who have children from a previous relationship that they never mention/see."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my personal experience, the men who lose touch with their older children are pretty selfish and have been very toxic to the children's mothers. The new family is an opportunity for them to start fresh. [/quote] The new wife and new kids don’t want to deal with the older set of kids and other mother/ex wife. No time either. The father needs to set aside time and attention. [/quote] And the dad usually has very limited time and attention. If he has two sets of kids, even if he’s a high earner, he’s probably still working a lot to support them. And he’s also usually no spring chicken at this point. [/quote] Totally this. He wants the new wife so he agrees to more kids. But then he's spread too thin financially and logistically, so nobody is satisfied. To avoid a second divorce, he picks the current wife and her kids, and she makes excuses to blame the older kids and their mom for her husband's shortcomings. It's utterly predictable. Happens all the time.[/quote]
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