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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Today’s my birthday. I told my boyfriend a week in advance I’d like him to come over today and spend time at my place for my bday. he said he didn’t know if he was free.

I was disappointed and have been taking space this week assuming we won’t see each other. he texted this afternoon asking if I could come over because he wanted to cook me a nice bday dinner. 
I didn’t see it til a few hours later and said ok.

Then he says he hadn’t heard from me all day so now he made plans to play video games with his friends. I deserve better.[/quote]

Girl let me explain what happened here.

First, you are dating a dusty-@$$ manchild. He is not going to change. It is dating 101 that you do something nice on your partner’s birthday. He knows this.

“I don’t know if I’m free” means he was free but was waiting to see if a better option came along.

You distanced yourself, which made him panic and try to reel you back in. So then he pulls the “I want to cook for you!” BS.

He was NEVER gonna cook for you. Even if you had responded immediately, he would have done the “oops sorry didn’t see your response!”

There are only 2 correct options here:

1. You dump him (preferred)
2. On your birthday, because he said he was busy, you should have put on your skankiest dress, gone out with your girlfriends, and post a ton of pictures to your IG stories.

May not be too late for that. Get dressed up and take a mirror selfie, even if you don’t go out. Then turn your phone off the rest of the night. Leave it off until at least 2pm tomorrow. Then when you see his texts of “where are you?” just respond “sorry crazy night!”

Then dump him, LOL. Take it from an old lady, men don’t suddenly change. The best thing to do is end things the second they stop putting in effort. [/quote]

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