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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are obviously the older sister. You should examine why your sister didn't feel comfortable telling you - did she worry you'd try to invite yourself? that you'd criticize how long she's going or that she can't afford it? You should be annoyed at yourself.[/quote]

This is it.

Obviously the elder sister thinks the sisters' relationship is peachy but it's not. Younger sister probably wanted to avoid some sort of behavior or commentary from elder. She knows the elder is going to throw cold water on her trip in some way so she didn't talk about it.

If elder is annoyed now, I can only imagine her attitude once sister returns from her trip. I'd say there is an estrangement in the offing and the younger will pull back and avoid elder as much as possible. Good for her - no law says you have to maintain a relationship with a toxic sibling. [/quote]

PP - You should take a printout of your post to your therapist and discuss.  Seriously.[/quote]

That person is a troll. Don’t feed.[/quote]

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