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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s innocent about a lap dance in a fully nude club? The woman is grinding on him and getting him off while his hands are God knows where. You’re okay with this?[/quote]

OP here- no, I’m not ok with it. I’m trying to get a sense of what likely happened as a starting point. For starters, I would think that payment for a dance or VIP room entry would be paid directly to the club, and not to a dancer directly via Venmo. Is this correct? So my assumption is that the $500 “tip” is for extras[/quote]
He had sex with the woman. End of story. [/quote]

Is it even possible that it’s just a lap dance? I’m thinking no. But am curious[/quote]

It is certainly POSSIBLE that it was "just a lap dance." That's a lot of money to pay for nothing. [b]$500 is a decent hourly rate for a highly paid escort.[/b] A lap dance is probably more like, at most, $50/song. At a very high end club, a private somewhat longer than average lap dance would probably be $100-200. Either he got SEVERAL innocent lap dances, which really pushes the "innocent" boundary, or he was doing something else for a lot of money he paid someone directly.[/quote]Uh, no.  It's fairly mind-range for an escort.  No "highly paid" escort fee is in the $500 range and those escorts aren't working dance clubs.  [/quote]

Fair, and I guess you maybe know more about what escorts charge than I do! My point was mostly that this is within the range for THAT level of s-work, not the club-based, one-dance-based type of situation that is likely being described by the OP's husband.[/quote]

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