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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my early 30s, exDH and I had sex 2-3x/day multiple days and always at least daily.  And then came the kids.

I wasn't getting sleep at night because I was with the kids.  I was running around during the day because I was with the kids.  The kids felt more connected to me and always wanted me.  Someone was always touching me.  Then exDH would want to have sex and it felt like one more chore.

Our 2nd child had significant SN.  I was working, managing the older child, and getting called in the middle of the day to come pick up our younger child.  The younger child would meltdown and throw the entire house into chaos.  Once I finally got him calmed down and the oldest into bed, exDH wanted to have sex.

I didn't want to have sex, I just wanted the day to end.  In the morning I didn't want sex because I was waking up to someone crying.

I'm 54 now and dating a 60 yr old.  I'm back to having sex 2-3 times when we see each other multiple times per week.  Does this mean that my libido subsided or was I overwhelmed by life and kids and needed more help that I wasn't getting?[/quote]

Well stated.[/quote]

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