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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Curious - if a spouse does have an issue with it, why?[/quote]

My dh at one time watched it often and never wanted to have sex with me even though I always initiated. I would try to initiate and he would tell me what's wrong with you. I then point blank confronted him and told him I scooped on his phone history and seen his usage. This was about 13 years ago and I never understood his hiding it because at one time we had a large DVD collection of porn that we would watch at least 2-3 times weekly.[/quote]

Yea, I think there’s a difference between men who use occasionally to get off but otherwise have healthy sex/relationships, and men who just prefer a screen to a real person. My ex was the latter, and even when he stopped porn to make me happy (we had sex maybe once a month, and only when I begged), he just replaced porn with spending hours a day stalking women’s FB profiles. Not even sexual stuff, just regular women. Some men just aren’t interested in women in real life. [/quote]

See, that sounds to me more like a dopamine addiction than a pron addiction. Pron and scrolling online blasts your dopamine receptors with large amounts of dopamine until you body deregulates them making them less sensitive. When you reach this state, its hard to have interest in anything beyond scrolling or pron. This is a major cause of ED as well.[/quote]

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