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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can someone define masculine man? I can't change a lightbulb and don't ask me to change a tire. But I could probably solve a partial differential equation in my head. I know how to make money and I have more than we will ever need for the next 40+ years. I just need to kiss my wife and when i touch her p**y she is already wet.

Is a masculine man a man who can change a tire, deadlift 325 lbs? Definition please[/quote]
I think everyone has their own definition, but for me:
A man who shows sexual initiative, is capable with his hands around the house, holds space for my emotions, has opinions on our life direction, take initiative in doing things, and is relatively lean and strong (and a beard, strong hands and legs, and a deep voice doesn’t hurt). [b]This is awesome when it’s paired with a man who can show emotional vulnerability, tenderness with children and[/b] me, and a desire to take care of those he loves. Not sure that guy exists.[/quote]

Ah lol you got me until that part. I am everything you have said until that point. Suuuure I can be emotionally vulnerable, but I will be blunt of honest it's not a natural thing for me. Like I'll have to think about it. [/quote]

It is possible to grow and change, you know. Now that you know, you can find ways to improve. [/quote]

NP here but when we want men to be in touch with their emotions, it's wanting men to be healthy.  Men who bottle up everything die young from high blood pressure or develop substance issues.[/quote]

In my humble opinion the issue is that women want men to be in touch with their emotion from their point of view. We don't expect women to be emotionally a certain way. We accept the way they deal with their emotions. But women, on the other hand, have plenty of ideas of how men should be emotionally available. We are different. We simply are. Women played a big part in raising us and if you see how boys vs girls are treated by moms themselves you will understand why men are not as emotionally available as adult women now ready for a partner expect them to be.[/quote]

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