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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Too many boys are larping masculinity by just being loud, pushy, and obnoxious. I’ll be damned if some pudgy potato [b]who can’t even change a flat tire[/b] and thinks “masculinity” is ranting in YouTube comments sections is going to try to boss me around in or out of the bedroom.[/quote]

Both men and women should be able to change a tire. I taught both my sons and daughters to do so that they are not waiting around for a "white knight" to do it for them.

However, the idea that masculinity is defined by being able to perform manual labor is stupid. If I have a free weekend afternoon, I am not going to work on changing my oil. First, I do not enjoy doing so.

Next, I am better off doing something that makes me better at my job (I am a partner in BigLaw firm) than doing "tasks" around the house.

And, no, I do not think doing both works. If I am going to be the best at what I do, I need to put in the effort. Every minute I spend doing something I do not know how to do (like fixing a car) is a minute away from what I am best at.
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