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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I lusted after a few female coworkers, in my mind only. That workplace was not the place for romance at all. Too many ways for things to backfire and a gossip machine you could not escape. 
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OP here and I couldn't agree more.  Neither of us would ever do anything.  I don't want to ruin my marriage and as I originally stated he is kind and decent, so if he was inclined to make a move he wouldn't anyway.  I am more concerned about the emotional ramifications and I don't want to start comparing DH to this guy. [/quote]

Um, if he's not interested in doing anything, why is he inviting his married co-worker to repeated lunches and after work drinks???

I agree with the PP who said focus on your own relationship.  It's not enough that you "wouldn't cheat on your DH" - figure out what's missing that makes this guy so super-interesting and try to spice up your marriage.

Focusing on the work guy just gives more power to the chemistry that is already there, and if you walk aaround all day saying "Don't think about him.  Don't think about him." you'll be thinking about him all the time.

Focus on spicing up your marriage... maybe plan an overseas trip for you and DH since that seems to be part of the intrigue for you.  And if you can't afford the trip, figure out how to network better with local opporunities to connect with other cultures.  You do live in the DC area, right?  There are a million international activities and centers in this area.[/quote]

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