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BTDT:  Here's my god's honest advice.  Avoid him like the plague.  Make up excuses and only interact with him at work as much as you professionally have to.  You are just fueling his ego and he has no real interest in you.  He probably just senses you are into him and he likes the ego stroke, not really you.  Every ounce of energy you feed into this fantasy you are taking out of your real relationship, your marriage.  He has all the upsides - no arguments, no give and take, no dealing with the kids and finances - while you have to deal with day to day real life crap with your husband.  Your husband can never compete with a fantasy.  Start seeing the fantasy guy for the jerk he is (because he is just using you) and then you can focus better on your real life with your husband.  Also, start spending more special time (date nights, dinners alone, sex, etc.) reconnecting with your husband.  Your dreams of your fantasy guy will then to start appropriately fade away.[/quote]

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