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[quote=Anonymous]Def check out the Burned Haystack method. Very helpful in weeding out men only looking for a hookup/arent what you are looking for.

Burned Haystack gives great insight into how you can tell a lot about a man from his profile. Because of what I have gleaned, in the past few days I have blocked men who:

1- mentioned on his profile that he is looking for a woman in touch w her sensual side. Clearly just looking for a hookup, which is fine. Thats what I was looking for when my exdh first separated but I quickly got that out of my system.

2- sent me an intro message with another woman’s name in it. This happens more often than you would believe, I assume they think it makes them look like they are a catch bc they have so many women?

3- said on his profile that he is very “go with the flow” and not a good planner so you have to either be very go with the flow also or plan everything.

4- generally any men who mentions something about how he never thought he would be on OLD but here he is, save him from another bad date bc OLD sucks so bad, etc. Ummm, Im on OLD also, I dont suck and am not pathetic.

You get the drift. I also dont waste my time on men who state that they dont know what they are looking for or are only looking for casual dates. I also dont usually entertain men who clearly didnt put much time into their profile/pics. Shows that they dont prioritize meeting someone solid.

I have fewer conversations but with better people and have been out on actual dates w better quality men.[/quote]

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