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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes it feels simpler for the people in it, but it can make life more complicated for everyone else. It's not a do-over.[/quote]

Not so much a do-over-- we're not having kids or anything-- but definitely a second chance at happiness. Not sure where "everyone else" comes into that. [/quote]

The other humans in your family! Your children if you have them. Anyone else who has to interact with your new partner. It's not necessarily simpler for them.[/quote]

Ah. Perhaps you are assuming that that wasn't part of the initial qualifications. But "must get along with my grown children" was absolutely at the top of the list. I know there are people who don't consider this a dealbreaker, but for me, I wouldn't even go on a second date with someone who wasn't good enough to have a pleasant meal with my kids.

And I don't give a tiny rat's ass what anyone else thinks of my second chapter. [i]That's the whole point. [/i][/quote]

But see, liking or getting along with someone doesn't mean life is simpler with them in it. I like my stepsiblings just fine, for example, but all of our family occasions now need to be planned with them and their spouses and children taken into account. I'm fine with this, but it's not simpler. Not for them either. [/quote]

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