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[quote=Anonymous]I just want to send you some solidarity -- those of us who can relate, get this scenario really well! I do think there are ways to get at some solutions, and at the same time, with ND kids, we always need to shift our expectations to meet where there are and to find what is really the "just right challenge" (learned that concept in a Raising Orchid Kids class -- I think they also run parenting ND teens support groups, which might be helpful for you too?), which is often a much smaller challenge than we imagine. Like, if you have a goal of going out all 4 of you to dinner, start with a short (even as short as 10 min) outing to somewhere that will be enjoyable for all. Then build on that success by trying something slightly longer or slightly more challenging. Also, have them help come up with the plan. And I also learned the hard way that when my ND child (middle schooler) tells me he doesn't want to go somewhere and can articulate why, things always go south when I force him to come, so I've gotten better at honoring what he needs in the moment if we can make it happen. If that's not possible, we try to find things that will feel soothing or comforting while he's in a place or situation that will feel triggering. [/quote]

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