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[quote=Anonymous]OP - are you a good planner?

I'm the older sister and I feel like it's my younger sister who wants to have a closer relationship- so it's different, but one thing that makes is hard for me is she's not a good planner when it involves other people (and I know I sound like a bossy bog sister here).  She has great ideas, but doesn't always factor in that people other than her and her husband have particular restrictions or preferences.  So it's extra work to plan with her and even though she was my MoH, I told her I didn't want a shower or bachelorette party because I knew she wouldn't be able to plan it (and they aren't my jam).  But my local besties, who weren't in the wedding, had a few bachelorettes for me.

Whereas when she got married she had "IDEAS!"  for her shower and had no realization that her IDEAS! were a big PITA (thank god my mom talked her out of the ugliest bridesmaids dresses - we were all middle aged and NOT svelte...).

Anyway.  I truly love my sister and would drop everything if she needed me, and she's one of the kindest people I know.   But it's a lot of work to be close to her - even though she'd claim to be extremely low maintenance.  [/quote]

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