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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- everyone saying it's not my problem. I understand he is not my problem but in my mind, stability for my children is my problem. For example, if he moves to a studio far away and can't drive, then does he stop having custody of the kids? That would be so traumatic for them. I have all my savings. He drained his savings to pay for his dui.[/quote] This is not permanent. This is a temporary situation he has gotten himself into. It is not your job to figure everything out. You can facilitate his contact with the kids to help the kids out, but do not fix his life. Work on the health insurance piece. Use COBRA for now. How does your employer not offer health insurance? [/quote]
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