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[quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry, OP. I’d pull out half the amount in any joint accounts and put it in a new separate account just in your name. Screenshot all financials such as 401(k), make sure you change all passwords to everything (even if you think he doesn’t have the password). Get a credit report and then freeze your credit. Document anything you think is important to document, like your efforts to find a job and his mental health issues. You need a divorce attorney, and since you’re in a new place (new state?) you might ask a trusted lawyer from your prior location to help you find someone good who is local to you. Find out if you are permitted to change the locks on your home. At least your husband gave you a heads up today instead of just dumping it on you on Monday. I mean, still a dick move to take this step without more discussion. [/quote]
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