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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You being broke is not the issue. All of your baggage is an issue. You are 46 years old, you have a failed marriage, you don’t have your kids full time, you live in an apartment, you don’t make a lot of money. What part of that are you a catch for a woman in her 40’s? [/quote]

OP here. I totally agree with you. I don't necessarily consider my career to have been a total failure. In this economy I am thankful to have a job where I make $210k. For some of you it's nothing I get it.

Yes you kid of stated the obvious ain't no catch i am not acting like one. I am just venting chill a bit.[/quote]

OP, don't take this PP's comments personally. There are troll(s) that go from thread to thread with the intent to kick people down when they already are hurting. That's on them, no reflection on you.

$210K is a very nice income. This area is tough with the HCOL. If you truly are paying 50% more than required by court decree, you sound like you are a nice person. Some nice lady is going to make note of that. Money isn't everything but nice human beings are worth their weight in gold. Join social groups such as hiking groups and see where things go.[/quote]

Not sure even the nicest of women are going to want to date a man who plays martyr to his ex-wife and kids and is broke himself.  They may think he's a nice guy, but not a good partner for them.  The problem with dating a man like this is that he starts leeching off the women he dates to support another woman and her kids effectively.

If OP can cook, he can date women his own age - coffee dates, hikes, eventually bring them over for a nice meal that he cooks.  That could win some points.  Some women wants NSA relationships because they are busy with their own kids.  They are fine with a 50/50 relationship. 
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