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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spouse is in a relation at work. Have confronted couple times but has denied. AP is single while I have two kids-he is a devoted dad, and we have long history together. Have more evidence now and want to confront (final) but not without a plan of getting the AP
out. He has a huge reputation to lose FWIW..anyone successfully navigated these waters? I will decide whether I stay or leave after the AP is out[/quote]

Do not demonize the woman. You will drive him straight into her complication-free arms. Focus on you cheating husband. You do whatever confrontation you feel like you need. Part of it must include "no contact with AP" and a plan for how to navigate the situation at work. If he's not willing to do that, he's not being serious about reconciling and you make your alternative plans.

It would be smart to talk to a divorce attorney before you do any confronting so that you don't injure yourself with your behavior here. If they work together and he gets fired, that loss of income will be objectively bad for you and your 2 kids, for example.[/quote]

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