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Consider your children first.[/quote]

Children don’t need to endure a crappy marriage.  It’s not good for them either. [/quote]
But divorce is also harmful. It’s case-by-case. My parents had a low conflict marriage, but it’s not a marriage I would ever want to be a part of. I often thought I’d love to see them each happy alone, but in hindsight I think that would’ve been worse. It would have been 2+ stressful years of them getting over the separation and having to establish everything on their own. It would’ve meant a lot less financial stability, especially for my mother so I think she would have ended up much worse off mentally too. Add to that, that neither of them would be the go to therapy to do a post mortem and work on their relationships with their kids type, and I think the pain of me living in two places and neither of them really being home would’ve been devastatingly awful. Once I wasn’t living with them, the fact that they were together made my life so much easier. There was no good answer, and I’m not sure what I would do, but divorce between the ages of 6 and 18 seems untenable for me unless of course there is abuse. [/quote]

Well stated. [/quote]

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