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[quote=Anonymous]I have a husband with ADHD/ASD and messy, hoarding tendencies. This is a hill to die on, OP. A child does NOT clean up after a messy parent. You, as the spouse, since you are OK not divorcing right now, can choose to shoulder some of that burden. But a child should not pay for the ineptitude of a parent. I would make that clear to him in the harshest of terms. His kids are not his slaves. In my house, we have had numerous bitter arguments about his habits and the burden it puts on the rest of the household. He lashes out, he gaslights, he has tantrums. I will not budge when it comes to protecting my children. [/quote]
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