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[quote=Anonymous]I’m really sorry, OP. I’m extracting myself from a similar situation. This is emotional and verbal abuse.

You need to know that people who are mentally well don’t pick fights and call people horrible names when there is a debate about who should take a child to daycare. Your DH is obviously pushing back against shared responsibilities and starting arguments/fights because he is unwilling to compromise and maybe also wants you to be the bad guy when he’s trying to slither out of something. Mine definitely does this. It is manipulative and immature. A normal person looks at a situation when both parents have a meeting at the same time and are tired and rushed and either sucks it up and does dropoff, or talks it through, and if they get their way they step up the next day and then some.

My DH never got over the fact that being part of a family meant that he would be #1 every second of the day, but he couldn’t step back and see it. It was everyone else’s fault, including our baby’s. And now he will be #1 but alone, because we’re moving out.[/quote]

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