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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you avoid the bloated rosters?  Seems like that's not going to change any time soon.  So how do you navigate with that as a given?[/quote]Check out the roster sizes of the club program, often it's easily found information.  Check out the roster size of the team year prior if it's already been formed.  Ask vet parents on sideline if they're aware what the club/team has done.  Watch a tournament that's relatively local (good investment of time if you can see how clubs/coaches operate).

Worst case listen at tryouts.  Or if not gotten info by then, ask directly in response to invite selection, if you get one.[/quote]

Yeah but the DMV teams are all huge except maybe Madlax.  So what do you do then?[/quote]

Find the best team where you can play period.  Or beat out somebody in front of you is also an option.  If you kill it they will NEVER leave a player on the bench if it brings them wins. As for Madlax I have maybe seen one or two players at most make it to the top team from DMV-ML, Orange-DCE, or Red-NL.[/quote]

I have seen some move from the B to the A but you have to absolutely dominate the competition at B and stand out regularly as the best player on the field to make that jump. [/quote]

Using Madlax as an example, it's much easier to make Capital from another team than it is DMV.

As for the roster sizes, they are out of control.  24 is way too many.  With a backup goalie and FOGO, teams need 20.  OP is completely right about teams that run three lines of middies.  Parents need to start demanding more playing time and stop cutting checks when the roster is bloated.  More specifically, parents need to be realistic about the lack of opportunities.  The recruiting thread here shows how few boys are going to good lacrosse schools.  There's no need to ride the bench at DCE to go nowhere in college ball.  Much better to go down to a roster where your son can actually play.

Like OP, i have seen only one good dad coach.  He was probably harder on his boy than the rest of the team.  He was a good man who knew his son's limitations and worked hard to get as much out of him as everyone else.

One thing I haven't seen discussed openly are the absurd politics that go into these teams.  While OP is right that there is usually a small chunk of players at the bottom of the roster who cannot hang, there are also usually a few kids who are better.  Usually (read: no Dad coach in the way), those kids play more.  For the rest, the boys tend to be relatively close but perceptions and playing time can vary wildly.  [/quote]

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